About Us

HangingOUT! -- A Desert Men's Community creates heart-centered spaces where men gather to eat, laugh, play, and connect authentically.

  We welcome caring gay, bi, and trans men of all backgrounds, and ages.  Based in the Coachella Valley of Southern California, we offer weekly coffee meetups, breakfasts, game nights, movie outings, massage exchanges, cuddle groups, pool and holiday parties, and more – all free from drugs and alcohol to foster mindful, genuine connection.

Try an event, and see what you think! 

To see our current and upcoming events, click the “calendar” link at the top.

To join our weekly email list, and our Facebook or WhatsApp groups, click the buttons below.

Questions?   Email us at  contact@hangingout.fun